aphrodite

Oct 21 2009, 02:09 PM

It is crazy .... how did we get from gay to geek

aphrodite

Oct 19 2009, 04:52 AM

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Oct 18 2009, 12:28 PM

That was interesting to read. One of the male designers I work for also is very well groomed, and has "that high pitched voice"
His mannerisms around clients, how he acts moves talks etc. Most would peg him for a gay person.

But he is married and totally straight! You can never tell for sure from appearance or mannerisms.

A lot of gay guys are married!!! Stec had a go at it. Just 'cos a guy is married it doesn't necessarily mean he's straight. It may mean that it is easier for him to have a go at conforming to what is possibly an easier option in society or a woman might want the comfort of knowing that she is financially secure by marrying a gay guy but also knowing that both he and she can 'do their own thing sexually' without any recriminations whilst keeping the appearance of being what society would deem as respectable. People have all sorts of different ways of coping with life, and relationships are not always what they seem. Kids could be another driving factor, no matter what your sexuality it still takes a man and a woman to have kids.

I had one female friend whose 'type' was gay, every man she fell for turned out to be gay, poor thing, she just seemed to veer towards gay men without knowing it. She kept trying to make them straight lol.

aphrodite

Oct 17 2009, 12:54 PM

I can usually tell if a guy is gay or not ..... not by the way he acts but usually by his appearance. Gay guys are very often meticlously well dresed and well groomed and are quite often well mannered as well, which is why a lot of girls wish a lot of gay guys wern't gay lol! I had a really good friend who was gay and he was one of the nicest people ever. He wouldn't openly admit that he was gay but I knew anyway. He used to go clubbing with me and my female friends and he was 'one of the girls'.very effeminate and not interested in the scantily clad women in the clubs at all, I caught him taking a sneaky peak at the guys though. Not sure why he wouldn't 'come out' but I guess he had his reasons. Anyway I moved away and I have lost contact with him now. Oh yes, and they usualy tell you how it is with regard to clothes etc. If you ask does my bum look big in this you will usually get a cheeky but direct and truthful answer .......... a straight guy wouldn't dare, but then, the gay guy is not trying to impress you to get you into bed lol.